Psalm 40: 2-3 NIV
He lifted me out of the slimy pit,
out of the mud and mire;
he set my feet on a rock
and gave me a firm place to stand.
3 He put a new song in my mouth,
a hymn of praise to our God.
Many will see and fear the Lord
and put their trust in him.
The word failure brings us to tears and hidden moments that we desperately try not to remember. It means deterioration or decay, especially in vigor, strength. It was unexpectedly authored by our great father.
But, isn’t our faithful walk suppose to bring success and joy?
If we fail, how can we know that God wants us to continue the path we thought He called us to follow?
When failure happens of any kind, our human response is to become fearful of it’s resurgence, or we may become protective by guarding ourselves. Fear leads to isolation and unwillingness to try again. Our life becomes numb and less than what we expect. On the other hand, our need to protect ourselves, leads to our need of performing beyond expectations, and will manifest into an overly extended lifestyle filled with doing.
Where do you stand?
I have been both at different stages of my life. Recently, I have been under protection. My schedule full, my workload beyond manageable at times, and the expectations I have of my self are far beyond reach. I would accomplish something and feel a sense of success, but that would last for only seconds when the next to do reared its ugly head. Never enough time, never enough resources, and never enough to satisfy the need to perform to avoid failure.
Society’s norm has its own response; avoid childhood failure. We create awards for everyone, we build each child up for their talents, we offer options so that no one feels less than successful. We build safeguards and feed a false sense of self confidence. These fragile children are ripe for a loss greater than they can handle as soon as a real failure occurs.
Psalm 119:71 It was good for me to be afflicted
so that I might learn your decrees.
2 Corinthians 4: 9 persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.
Romans 5: 3-4 Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; 4 perseverance, character; and character, hope.
Why has God created failure? What is His mission in making us fall?
Our fails lead to Him. They makes us come to the realization that He is the only one who will save us, guide us, and make things right. We can then embrace the less than perfect moments, and can take it graciously while turning it into hope. Hope is the faithful response to failure. It provides our Lord the open door He needs to come into our broken lives. This is how our faith grows.
For following His lead and accepting the falls, he provides wonderful blessings in the form of success which our human minds can not explain. This cycle continues, and he draws us near. He whispers loving words of inspiration and adoring love for His new obedient follower.
Yet, isn’t our happy ending. Our memories will falter.
Psalm 41:9 Even my close friend,
someone I trusted,
one who shared my bread,
has turned against me.
Even Jesus knew Judas would betray him even after seeing God’s greatness. We will slip again when our successes become our weaknesses. How we soon forget where we were, patting ourselves tenderly on the back for a job well done in the world’s view. Who do we serve?
Our failure is inevitable and our success comes when we realize that God is more and we are less. The world is not who we answer, it is our loving father who bears our inequities.
Lamentations: 3:22 Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed,
for his compassion never fail.
Psalm 73: 26My flesh and my heart may fail,
but God is the strength of my heart
and my portion forever.